Hello there! Long time no see…
This time’s topic is going to be more emotionally concerned
and not gender oriented since we all know that both women and men go through
these days.
I’m taking about those days when you are so overwhelmed with
things to do that you find yourself b*tching about all kinds of things. It recently happened
to me (and many others around me) to be so fed up of responsibilities that you actually
take it out on people that have nothing to do with your problems (poor
things, they’re just trying to …exist) but also with your most loved ones.
Especially what happens with women is that they re
constantly picking on details on days like this. They are overreacting to all kinds of
situations, and proving themselves right even if that was the last thing they did in their life. Okey, okey stop imagining us wearing black capes, pointy hats ,
long nails and riding brooms. I just meant that we can be a little rough and
irrational but this is not entirely our fault.
There are days like that that you are so disappointed how
things works and especially on the fact that no matter how nice you are to people, the bad cop attitude
would make things work faster. You are so mad at everyone for not being the way
you are or not have the principles you do. You are amazed at the others' irresponsibility and inconsiderate ways of treating you. You are tired of
people trying to make you as inhuman as they are.
Remember how they always taught us when we were little that
no matter what you have to get up again and fight some more? (Who did they think
we were? Superheros ??) I’m all for adapting and learning how to live in a
community but at days like these that sounds like the dumbest idea ever. NO,
in days like this I want to cuddle up in a ball and never leave my bed.
Have you ever been tired of being strong? I think we all have. Strong personality and capability to handle the situation "the right way" loses power in days like those. That is why i feel that in
moments like that I wish I could just run away. But then again rationality
kicks in and I have to come back to reality and figure it all out… because
nobody else will if i don't...
No matter how you deal with the situations, how weak or
strong you think you can be, no matter how much you can think you can handle,
let me tell you that is ok to feel weak and to want to just hide from every
possible responsibility! Now is just the beginning and without wanting to spoil it, there is a long path of disappointment and all sorts of failures ahead. So either learn to live with
that fear or find a good spot to hide till you’re ready to face it all. We’ve
all been there and we will all stop by again and again eventually too.
Just keep in mind that no matter what either Karma will take care
of you (I’ve seen it in action!) or things will end up to be just FINE ! Maybe not today, but eventually they will.J
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